As someone who can “take it or leave it” when it comes to celebrating with my man, I wanted to send this special PSA as I reflect on Valentine’s Days past. I remember times when I felt so differently.
…when you reach your 30s the expectations shift. Many of us are involved in serious relationships with deeper intention. We will often make serious life changes and adjustments in order to accommodate our partner and make our relationship work.
You get to decide whether you settle for what is or invest in yourself and what you know could be. You must determine what is holding you back and make the choices you need to make to feel better. You must know, deep down, that you deserve better than this.
Remember, as with all of my tips and tricks, nothing is a one-size-fits-all. Anxiety looks and feels different for everyone who experiences it; some of these suggestions might work well for you, some may not